BEING WITH DYING

Joan Halifax is working very closely with hospice through the Upaya Foundation. She is in the process of becoming ordained as a Buddhist, "with a little b," monk, and maintains a very grounded and centered presence. The caregiver can offer a similar presence, of equanimity, when working with one who is dying. The greatest manifestation of compassion becomes just "the strength to see it through," providing unmoving service, even in the face of great suffering.

Ms. Halifax also spoke of the contemplative aspect of caregiving. This relates to the fact that for the Buddhist, death is seen as a moment of total and clear awakening, to be prepared for while living. She also included the importance of community, how caregivers can benefit and stay centered in their practice by sharing and keeping in contact with each other. The entire community benefits from these efforts. The hospice movement is the most important village movement in this country. It is undergoing great stress at this time with regard to reimbursement and insurance issues, but through skillful means, it may learn to work with, and not be adversely affected by "the fire of change." Information about the Upaya Project is as follows, (as quoted from its webpage). It is a "not-for-profit Buddhist organization dedicated to education and practices that foster effective action and right livelihood. Upaya is the Sanskrit word for 'skillful means' or 'the craft of compassion.' The concept of compassion as an actual practice is based in the realization that all things are interconnected. Understanding this, we cannot turn away from the suffering of others. The well-being of others is intimately related to our own lives. This perspective confirms the importance of each individual living respectfully and responsibly."

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