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How To Be With Those Who Are Dying
ABOUT DYING
The verb to die come from the Indo-European base dhue-, which means to pass away, become senseless. Dying is a natural part of living. Dying is the personal experience of the being letting go of its physical body.
- Dying can be observed to occur in stages. Take note of these varying stages as they occur.
- 1. Earth sinking into water. A deep, incessant sensation of slowly increasing pressure, of being inexorably drawn downward into a pool of mercury or lead, of melting into the earth.
- 2. Water sinking into fire. A sensation of clammy coldness as though one had been suddenly immersed in ice water—it begins with uncontrollable shivering gradually merging into unbreathably hot, oppressively still atmosphere.
- 3. Fire sinking into air. A sensation of being just on the verge of explosion, giving way to a sensation of total dispersal of self.
- 4. Air into Clear Light. A feeling of being utterly at peace, utterly alone, completely outside space and time, free of all necessity; a sudden, powerful and thrilling sense of deep, ironic knowledge sweeps through the self, but this great, profound, sweeping, all-encompassing knowledge doesn't seem to refer to anything in particular.
ABOUT BEING THERE
HOW TO BE THERE
READING THE AMERICAN BOOK OF THE DEAD
SIGNS OF PASSING
THE PEACEFUL PASSAGE
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